Have you considered that the problem here may not be other people? The fact that a group of people who are doing fine without you aren't giving you exactly what you want sure isn't their problem.
In no way does the lisp community need to "grow up" or "develop social skills", and the fact that you suggest those things indicates that your expectations are out of sync with reality. If you want to market lisp, do it. If you want to write apps in lisp, do that. But "OMG this community isn't what I want it to be" whining is irrelevant and annoying.
You're living inside a bubble.
Have you considered that the problem here may not be other people? The fact that a group of people who are doing fine without you aren't giving you exactly what you want sure isn't their problem.
In no way does the lisp community need to "grow up" or "develop social skills", and the fact that you suggest those things indicates that your expectations are out of sync with reality. If you want to market lisp, do it. If you want to write apps in lisp, do that. But "OMG this community isn't what I want it to be" whining is irrelevant and annoying.